smooth, and it is good that it is not always smooth, otherwise you would not grow.
Whenever there is a change, any sort of change, things will come into focus more clearly.
When change disturbs you, all your inner disturbances are stirred. You are both feeling
disturbed and both trying to throw the responsibility on the other. Just try to see it inside
yourself. The other is never responsible. Remember that as a mantra: The other is never
responsible....