Narcissistic Ex: How to Get Over a Toxic Relationship, Deal With an Abusive Ex and Become Free of the Controlling Sociopath

· Escape the Narcissist
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Narcissistic abuse is a form of abuse that ensures victims are left emotionally drained, mentally exhausted, and devoid of any self-worth or self-esteem. I was a victim of a malignant narcissist for seven years of my life, and I know just how crushing it is to live such an abusive and suppressed life. The helplessness and detachment from reality that comes with narcissistic abuse are enough to keep you in the tight grip of the abuser for as long as they choose.


However, I eventually found the courage to leave my abuser, but it didn't end there. As you may know, ending a relationship with a narcissist isn't that easy - even if it was the narc who did the breaking up. They don't just 'let you go' - they try to make sure you'll go through hell before you get one over on them.


In this book, I want to offer you some guidance on this rarely-talked about aspect of an abusive relationship: how to deal with a narcissist when they're your ex. The chapter list is as follows:


Why you shouldn't go back and why you need to move on

Why you need to go 'no contact' and ways you can do this

How to stop missing your abuser

Understanding and dealing with 'hoovering' after a break-up

Narcissistic stalking

How to deal with 'flying monkeys'


Survivor stories from two former narcissistic abuse victims


Throughout the book, I also offer some of my own story too, in the hopes that this offers you a sense of familiarity. You'll likely find that thing things I went through are very similar to your own experiences, and the purpose of this book is to get you to the point where I'm currently at: healed and thriving.

Narcissistic abuse is a form of abuse that ensures victims are left emotionally drained, mentally exhausted, and devoid of any self-worth or self-esteem. I was a victim of a malignant narcissist for seven years of my life, and I know just how crushing it is to live such an abusive and suppressed ...

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60 reviews
Joyce Barwis
November 19, 2024
I had a very similar problem years ago but my ex is now trying to use our children from that relationship to get to me.but I have reached the point now that I can say f-that it is very hard work but if you're determined to beat whatever is thrown at you you'll find strength that you wouldn't believe that you have.
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Dylan Strong
August 18, 2022
A great read and well written book. It's helped me understand more fully the extent in which my friend must have suffered in her abusive relationship. It's also offered me some understanding on how to help support victims of narcissists. I highly recommend you read this book.
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Uljana Borblik
September 7, 2026
This book helped me To break the trauma bond with my toxic ex, when I felt him pulling me back, reading this book helped me in the process To finally choose myself. Forever grateful ❣️
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