Through this writing, the author attempts to convey her deepest feelings, with sincerity and self-criticism that stem from a profound reflection on her history. With the idea that it may serve other people who are going through moments or situations similar to her experiences.
Why her and not me? is the continuation of her original work Music in Your Ears, this time wanting to demonstrate that even the most conflicting feelings that each person may have regarding their disabled sibling are valid for their growth.
Only when one can know, understand, and forgive oneself will they discover inner peace and a new way to enjoy and live life.